Case of the Ex

  1. 2 years ago

    I need some advice. My boyfriend's just reconnected with his ex and she wants to be friends, which he seems okay with. I am very uncomfortable with it, but he says they were friends before they even dated so there's no reason they can't be friends now. I am honestly not at ease with this new "friendship", but i also don't want to put my relationship at risk by fighting about it repeatedly. Please what do you think i should do? This is a real cause for concern for me. Am i overreacting?

  2. no no no... your boyfriend should not keep connection with his ex... I dont believe at all in these things, sorry

  3. I agree with chanedy.. What friendship can be between his ex and him?? you should be strict at this situation and say that it is not good desicion to reconnected with her

  4. why you all are so strict?
    Samantha, if something is yours then it always will be yours, and then even ex will not seduse it from you, but if its destine not to be yours, then you cant do anything

  5. but for what him need to communicate with his ex??tell me! it is strange really

  6. @chanedy but for what him need to communicate with his ex??tell me! it is strange really

    I agree with chanedy, why he suddently started to want have firendship with his ex girl? Ok,maybe it's her interest, not him, but it's not normal. If they would want to be simple friends after break up, they could stay friends previous...

  7. i think there is nothing bad to have ex boy as friends. Many couples in the world are able to stay friends after break up, especially if their break up was friendly. So Samantha, don't worry so much, if you bf really loves you, his friendship with ex doesn't mean anything:)

  8. no, I dont think so, its bad to have friendship with your ex... Ex need to leave in the past, the present you live should be without any ex.

  9. yea, of course you need to start your new life, not live in the past

  10. diezna, do you think that there is nothing bad? So if your boyfriend would want to communicate with his ex? Would you agree with it? Would you be happy? I dont think so.

  11. Pls my dear don't worry ur self. It not wrong to communicat wit ex but should be limited

  12. @Oni_Faitho Pls my dear don't worry ur self. It not wrong to communicat wit ex but should be limited

    agree that communication and meetings with ex should be limited.:)

  13. Girls, would you allow your boufriend to communicate with es girls? I wouldnt want this at all...

  14. To ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ i did not see anything wrong in it , if d guy I̶̲̥̅̊S urs nobody i say nobody can take him away 4rm ΰ but if d guy I̶̲̥̅̊S not urs even if ΰ talk to him about d girl 4rm morning till nite there I̶̲̥̅̊S nothing ΰ can do to make him stay , ♍y advice 4 ΰ I̶̲̥̅̊S dat don't fight bcos of her b wise Α̲̅Ω̴̩̩̩̥d use ΰя brain.

  15. kunkuliuke

    24 Feb 2015 Administrator

    @akinolafunmilayo To ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ i did not see anything wrong in it , if d guy I̶̲̥̅̊S urs nobody i say nobody can take him away 4rm ΰ but if d guy I̶̲̥̅̊S not urs even if ΰ talk to him about d girl 4rm morning till nite there I̶̲̥̅̊S nothing ΰ can do to make him stay , ♍y advice 4 ΰ I̶̲̥̅̊S dat don't fight bcos of her b wise Α̲̅Ω̴̩̩̩̥d use ΰя brain.

    good said

  16. @akinolafunmilayo To ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ i did not see anything wrong in it , if d guy I̶̲̥̅̊S urs nobody i say nobody can take him away 4rm ΰ but if d guy I̶̲̥̅̊S not urs even if ΰ talk to him about d girl 4rm morning till nite there I̶̲̥̅̊S nothing ΰ can do to make him stay , ♍y advice 4 ΰ I̶̲̥̅̊S dat don't fight bcos of her b wise Α̲̅Ω̴̩̩̩̥d use ΰя brain.

    Yea you are rigt, bot I am quite envious, so I dont want that my boy even would think about his ex

  17. chanedy, we cant control other people minds, so I think you should need to trust your boy

  18. yea, I agree, and to be envious too much is not good

  19. Ladies, the envy is not good feeling, so you must to understand and trust your boys

  20. last year

    its not good without doubt, ex is ex, she will never be able to be friends with your boy, its my opinion

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