HOW TO BE THE BEST GIRLFRIEND HE EVER DATED

  1. 2 years ago
    Edited 2 years ago by Carino

    1. Friendship: I am a sucker for friendship, it won’t even work in the first place if we are not friends. It’s a gradual process, know him well enough. Communication is key ingredient for a relationship to work, you should be able to talk endlessly with your partner and not struggle to strike a conversation with him, once there is a struggle, it only means there is a problem. Basic knowledge about him, his likes and dislikes, family etc. every day is another day to discover a new thing, that’s how friendship works. You are just never tired talking.
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    2. Miss Independence: You may think it’s about putting up an act to show you can handle your finances? NO! Being independent here only means, stay busy for yourself and don’t choke him all up by cancelling all other activities that existed in your life before you met him. Just because you are together doesn’t mean other activities and other people should be cancelled totally! If you are doing this you need to stop because at some point he just may get tired of seeing you on a daily. Let him miss you!

    3. Zero Expectation, Zero Disappointment: Once you start dating, most ladies would start thinking ‘’marry me’’. You only spoil things with this thought just go with the flow that he brings on board. Don’t strike him as a desperate girl who just wants to be married.

    4. Don’t be a Nag: This is the spoiler alert! No man wants to stay with a nagging girlfriend who just never sees anything good in what he does. You should let him know when you are unhappy about a situation but your manner of approach will help save the day. Shower him with praises, don’t condemn him even when things are tough, do not compare him with your friend’s boyfriend. Constantly nagging a guy won’t change his behaviour but makes him defensive and this can be frustrating to the both of you. Nag not!

    5. Sexy Cool: No matter how long you have been with him, make sure you keep the spark alive. Some girls just feel overly comfortable when they are so sure about the guy and they let their guards down. Make him go bananas every time he sets his eyes on you. Wear that bubbly outfit he likes once in a while, send him mind blowing text messages. Keep the spark alive!

    6. Surprise is the Spice of Life: This is applicable in every aspect of the relationship. Like they say, it’s the little things that matter, you can leave a note for him or the big one , go skydiving or get him gifts and just make him smile. Pull him out of his comfort zone!

    source:diamondwoman.com

  2. Oh, yea, its not easy task to be wonderful girl for your boyfriend, but I think I hadnt dissapointed boys with whom I dated

  3. mombasy

    19 Mar 2015 Administrator

    The most important is to be yourself I think.

  4. robby

    2 Apr 2015 Administrator

    I agree that keeping spark is very omportant in relation.;)

  5. being spark, yea, absolutely is one of keys being best girlfriend

  6. to be yourself

  7. if you need to put a lot of effort in your relationships, it means that smth isn't good. As @duranee mentiones the main thing is to be yourself and act by your heart, all other things will go naturally

  8. yeaa, I agree absolutely with duranee, the most important is to be yourself, then other person will be happy with you

  9. Well guys, when you are together 2-3 years is great, but when you are in relationship more than 5 years, you need to put efforts

  10. @supergirl Well guys, when you are together 2-3 years is great, but when you are in relationship more than 5 years, you need to put efforts

    Do you mean that you are not satified your relationship?

  11. you dont need to be the best girl he ever dated, you need to be that girl with whom he will be happiest man!

  12. wow, nice words, liry venna.... really, it is true, the most important that your boyfriend would be happy with you, then you will the best for him

  13. You will never be the best if he will have after you many others girls, cz when he is in relationship with someone then that girl is the best for him. Of course if you are the only for him, then everything is ok, you can try to be the best

 

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